© Margaret L. Cunningham, PhD 2002
Last updated August 12, 2008
Talk therapy
When a person needs help with a specific problem e.g. grief issues,
relationship concerns, etc, talk therapy can be very helpful.
The therapist may make suggestions. Remember, they are
suggestions— if you act on them, they are your responsibility.
Some therapists are passive listeners, while others are more interactive.
Either way, the client talks about the problem and does some problem solving.
Occasionally in talk therapy, you may do role-playing to help you
practice different approaches. This also has the advantage of
helping you see the problem from a different perspective.
The duration of talk therapy will depend on the
needs of the client and the presenting problem.
In talk therapy, the emphasis is on therapy. It's not the same as
complaining to a friend. No matter how friendly your therapist seems
or how close you feel to your therapist, the rules of friendship do not
apply here. The goal is to form a therapeutic relationship.