| © Margaret L. Cunningham, PhD 2002 |
| Last updated February 2, 2011 |
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| Think of the family as a house; each member is a room. |
| Each member has the right to privacy, to shut or open the door to her or his room. |
| Likewise, if the door to the house is missing or always open, there is no safety. |
| If the door is barricaded or never open, the members cannot grow. |
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